This post is all about the best Valentine’s Day messages for everyone you love!
Can we talk about how stressful writing Valentine’s Day messages actually is?!
Like, you’d think expressing love would be easy, but then you’re sitting there with a blank card, your pen hovering over the paper, and your brain is just… empty. Completely and totally blank. And then you start spiraling: Is “I love you” enough? Should I be more creative? Wait, is this too cheesy? Not cheesy enough? Does this even sound like me?!
I literally go through this EVERY SINGLE YEAR. Whether I’m writing a sweet message for my boyfriend, texting my best friend something cute for Galentine’s Day, or helping my little sister figure out what to write in her classroom valentines, finding the perfect words is somehow the hardest part of Valentine’s Day!
That’s why I decided to create the ultimate guide to Valentine’s Day messages—and I’m talking messages for literally EVERYONE in your life. Your husband, your girlfriend, your mom, your best friend, your crush who you’re not technically dating yet (but like, you basically are), your long-distance partner, and yes, even your coworkers who you need to keep it professional with.
What I love about this list is that it’s super organized by relationship type, so you’re not scrolling through a million romantic messages when you just need something cute for your sister. Plus, I included messages for different vibes—romantic, funny, heartfelt, casual, flirty—because not every Valentine’s Day message needs to sound like a Nicholas Sparks novel (though some definitely should!).
And here’s the thing: you don’t have to use these word-for-word if that feels weird. Think of them more like… inspiration? A starting point? You can totally mix and match, add your own inside jokes, or completely change them to fit your relationship. The goal is just to help you get UNstuck so you can write something that feels genuine and sweet.
Also—quick disclaimer—some of these are definitely on the cheesy side because honestly, Valentine’s Day is kind of THE day to be cheesy without judgment. But I also included plenty of low-key options if you’re not into all that mushy stuff.
Okay, let’s get into it! Here are 127 Valentine’s Day messages that’ll make anyone’s heart melt (or at least make them smile).
BTW, if you’re looking for Valentine’s Day gift ideas to go with these messages, check out my posts on [Mason Jar Valentine Gifts] and [The Best Valentine’s Day Flowers]!
This post is all about Valentine’s Day messages.
Valentine’s Day Messages for Your Boyfriend
Trying to write the perfect message for your boyfriend can feel like so much pressure! You want it to be sweet but not over-the-top, romantic but still sound like YOU. Here are some of my favorite messages that strike that perfect balance:
Romantic Messages for Him:
You make every single day feel like Valentine’s Day, and I fall for you more with each moment we share.
I never believed in soulmates until I met you. Thanks for proving me wrong in the best possible way.
Being with you feels like coming home. Happy Valentine’s Day to the person who makes my heart so happy.
Every love song makes me think of you. Every rom-com reminds me of us. You’re literally my favorite person in the entire world.
You’re not just my boyfriend—you’re my best friend, my biggest supporter, and the reason I smile every day.
Sweet & Simple Messages:
You’re my favorite notification to wake up to every morning.
Thanks for being the best part of my day, every single day.
I’m so lucky I get to do life with you. Happy Valentine’s Day, babe!
You + me = my favorite equation. Happy Valentine’s Day!
I love you more than coffee, and that’s saying A LOT.
Funny Messages for Your Boyfriend:
I love you even when you steal all the blankets. That’s true love right there.
Unlike the toilet paper, my love for you will never run out. Happy Valentine’s Day forever!
You’re the only person I’d share my fries with. That’s how I know it’s real.
Happy Valentine’s Day to the guy who still thinks he’s funnier than me (he’s not, but I love him anyway).
I was going to get you something super romantic for Valentine’s Day, but then I remembered you already have me 😉
You’re lucky you’re cute because you’re also really annoying sometimes. Love you anyway!
For New Relationships:
Our first Valentine’s Day together! No pressure or anything, but I’m really excited about where this is going.
I’m so glad I swiped right (or whatever brought us together). Happy Valentine’s Day!
This is all still pretty new, but I already know I really like you. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Getting to know you has been the best part of these last few months. Can’t wait to see where we go from here.
For Long-Distance Boyfriends:
Miles can’t measure how much I miss you. Counting down the days until I can hug you again.
Being apart from you is the hardest thing, but knowing you’re mine makes it worth it. Happy Valentine’s Day, even from far away.
Distance means nothing when someone means everything. You’re my everything.
Technology is pretty amazing because it lets me talk to you every day, but I still can’t wait until we don’t need it anymore.
Valentine’s Day Messages for Your Girlfriend
Writing a Valentine’s message for your girlfriend is your chance to show her exactly how special she is to you! Whether she loves over-the-top romance or prefers something more low-key, there’s something here that’ll make her heart happy:
Romantic Messages for Her:
You’re the most beautiful person I’ve ever known, inside and out. Happy Valentine’s Day to my whole world.
Every moment with you feels like a dream I never want to wake up from.
You make my life infinitely better just by being in it. I love you more than words can say.
I fall in love with you all over again every single day. Happy Valentine’s Day, beautiful.
You’re my person. My safe place. My happy ending. My everything.
Sweet Messages:
You make my heart smile in ways I didn’t even know were possible.
Thanks for being you and for letting me be me. That’s all I could ever ask for.
I love the way you laugh, the way you think, and the way you make even the boring days feel special.
You’re my favorite hello and my hardest goodbye.
Every day with you is my new favorite day.
Funny Messages for Your Girlfriend:
I love you almost as much as you love online shopping. Almost.
You’re the avocado to my toast. The filter to my selfie. The WiFi to my phone. Basically, I can’t function without you.
Happy Valentine’s Day to someone who’s way out of my league but loves me anyway!
You’re stuck with me forever. Sorry, I don’t make the rules. Happy Valentine’s Day!
I promise to always let you have the last slice of pizza. That’s how you know I love you.
For New Relationships:
I’m really happy we’re doing this whole relationship thing together. Happy first Valentine’s Day!
Every time I’m with you, I like you even more than I already did (which is a lot).
This is all still pretty new, but you already mean so much to me.
Valentine’s Day Messages for Your Husband
Your husband deserves a message that shows him how much he’s appreciated! After years together, it’s these little reminders that keep the romance alive:
Romantic Messages for Husband:
After all these years, you’re still the only one I want by my side. Happy Valentine’s Day to my forever person.
Marrying you was the best decision I ever made. Loving you is the easiest thing I’ve ever done.
You’re not just my husband—you’re my best friend, my partner in everything, and the love of my life.
Every day I’m grateful that I get to wake up next to you. Happy Valentine’s Day, my love.
Being married to you is the greatest adventure. Here’s to many more Valentine’s Days together.
Sweet & Appreciative:
Thanks for being the dad our kids need and the partner I can always count on. I love you so much.
You make our house feel like home. Happy Valentine’s Day to my favorite person.
I’m so lucky to be in love with my best friend.
You still give me butterflies after all these years. How did I get so lucky?
Funny Messages for Husband:
Happy Valentine’s Day to the man who still pretends to laugh at my jokes even when they’re not funny.
Love you more than I love having the remote control. And that’s saying something.
Thanks for putting up with me for another year. You deserve an award (or at least some chocolate).
You’re the only person I’d tolerate snoring next to me every night. That’s true love.
Valentine’s Day Messages for Your Wife
Show your wife how much she means to you with a heartfelt Valentine’s message that reminds her why you fell in love in the first place:
Romantic Messages for Wife:
You’re the most incredible woman I’ve ever known. Happy Valentine’s Day to my beautiful wife.
Every year I love you more than the year before. Thanks for being my everything.
You make me want to be a better person every single day. I’m so grateful you’re mine.
Loving you is the best thing I’ve ever done. Happy Valentine’s Day, gorgeous.
Sweet Messages:
You’re an amazing mom, an incredible wife, and my absolute favorite person in the world.
Thanks for building this life with me. I wouldn’t want to do it with anyone else.
You make every ordinary day feel extraordinary just by being in it.
Funny Messages for Wife:
Happy Valentine’s Day to the woman who’s always right (don’t let this go to your head).
I love you even when you steal all my hoodies and claim you “don’t know where they went.”
You’re the only person whose cold feet I’ll tolerate in bed. That’s love right there.
Valentine’s Day Messages for Your Best Friend (Galentine’s Day!)
Your best friend deserves ALL the love on Valentine’s Day too! These Galentine’s messages are perfect for showing your BFF how much they mean to you:
Sweet Messages for Best Friend:
Happy Galentine’s Day to my favorite human! Thanks for always being there through everything.
You’re the sister I got to choose. Love you forever, bestie!
Life is so much better with you in it. Happy Valentine’s Day to my ride-or-die!
Thanks for being the friend who knows all my secrets and still loves me anyway.
You make me laugh harder than anyone else. Happy Galentine’s Day, babe!
Funny Messages:
Happy Galentine’s Day to someone who’s seen me at my absolute worst and still chooses to be my friend!
You’re the only person I’d share my snacks with. That’s how I know we’re best friends.
Thanks for being just as weird as me. We’re perfect together.
Love you more than I love stalking my ex’s new girlfriend on Instagram (and that’s saying something).
For Long-Distance Friends:
Missing you extra today! Can’t wait until we’re close enough to celebrate in person again.
Distance can’t change the fact that you’re my person. Happy Valentine’s Day from miles away!
Valentine’s Day Messages for Your Crush
Writing a message to your crush is NERVE-WRACKING! Here are some messages that are flirty but not too intense:
Subtle & Sweet:
Happy Valentine’s Day! Hope your day is as amazing as you are.
Just wanted to say you’re pretty awesome. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Thinking about you today (and most other days, if I’m being honest). Hope you have a great Valentine’s Day!
A Little Flirtier:
I’d be lying if I said I haven’t been hoping for an excuse to text you. Happy Valentine’s Day!
You’ve been on my mind a lot lately. Hope your Valentine’s Day is incredible.
Not to be too forward, but you’re kind of amazing. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Valentine’s Day Messages for Family
Don’t forget about your family on Valentine’s Day! Here are sweet messages for the people who’ve loved you since day one:
For Mom:
Happy Valentine’s Day to my first love! Thanks for everything you do, Mom.
You taught me what real love looks like. Thank you for being the best mom in the world.
Love you more than all the Valentine’s candy in the world (and you know how much I love candy!).
For Dad:
Happy Valentine’s Day, Dad! Thanks for showing me what a good man looks like.
You’re my first hero and my forever Valentine. Love you, Dad!
For Siblings:
Happy Valentine’s Day to my built-in best friend! Love you, even when you’re annoying.
Thanks for being the best sister/brother anyone could ask for!
For Kids:
You make my heart so full every single day. Happy Valentine’s Day, sweetie!
Being your mom/dad is my favorite thing in the whole world. Love you to the moon and back!
Short Valentine’s Day Messages (Perfect for Texts!)
Sometimes you just need something quick and sweet to send via text. Here are the best short Valentine’s messages:
You’re my favorite person. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Love you more than yesterday, less than tomorrow.
You make my heart happy.
Happy Valentine’s Day to my whole world!
Sending you all my love today and every day.
You + Me = Perfect. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Can’t imagine my life without you in it.
You’re my always and forever.
Happiest when I’m with you. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Love you to the moon and back!
Funny Valentine’s Day Messages (Funny, Weird, SLightly Unhinged Valentine’s Messages)
Not everyone wants super serious and romantic! These funny messages are perfect if you and your Valentine have a great sense of humor:
I love you more than I love being right. And I REALLY love being right.
You’re the reason I wake up every morning. Just kidding, it’s coffee. But you’re a close second!
Thanks for loving me even though I’m basically a human disaster. Happy Valentine’s Day!
I love you even when you leave the toilet seat up. That’s basically sainthood right there.
Happy Valentine’s Day! I’d give you my heart, but I’m pretty sure you already stole it.
Roses are red, violets are blue, I’m terrible at poems, so this will have to do. Love you!
You’re like a fine wine: you get better with age and you make me dizzy.
I love you more than I love pretending I’m not on my phone when you’re talking to me (sorry about that).
I love you more than Wi-Fi with full bars.
You’re the reason I’d share my fries. That’s real love.
I’d fight a goose for you. And that says a lot.
Our love is like a software update: confusing, unexpected, but somehow essential.
I love you even when you’re wrong. Which is often. 💖
You’re my favorite person to do absolutely nothing with.
I’d still choose you in a room full of snacks.
You’re the peanut butter to my emotional instability.
I love you more than naps… and that’s saying something.
You’re the only person I’d let touch my phone without supervision.
I’d pause my game for you. Valentine behavior.
You’re my favorite bad decision.
I love you like a raccoon loves shiny trash.
If love were a crime, we’d be mildly wanted.
You’re hotter than my laptop after 3 Chrome tabs.
Extra Weird Valentine’s Day Messages
I love you in a we met in another timeline kind of way
You feel like a dream I forgot but my soul remembered
If we were NPCs I’d still choose your dialogue option
I recognize you from a past life where we were probably frogs
Our vibes are legally confusing
You make my brain do the DVD logo bounce
Unlike my sanity my love for you is fully stocked
My love for you has more layers than a Costco pack of toilet paper
Even in a crisis I’d save you before the TP
My love for you is non refundable and bought in bulk
Limited edition love unlimited supply
Chaotic Gremlin Valentine’s Day Messages
I’d commit minor crimes with you happy Valentine’s
You’re my favorite source of serotonin and bad ideas
I love you like a raccoon loves screaming at 3am
You plus me equals emotionally feral
I’d steal road signs for you allegedly
You make my inner goblin feel seen
Sweet-But-Dumb Valentine’s Day Messages
I like you more than cookies and I really like cookies
You make my heart go brrr
Every time I see you my brain plays elevator music
I’d give you the bigger half even if it’s only slightly bigger
You’re my favorite notification
I smile when I think of you and I don’t know why but okay
Flirty Menace Valentine’s Day Messages
Be my Valentine or I will continue flirting aggressively
I’m not obsessed with you I’m committed
You look like trouble and I support that
I’d ruin my sleep schedule for you
You’re the reason my screen time is embarrassing
Let’s make this everyone else’s problem
Valentine’s Day Messages for Coworkers (Keep It Professional!)
If you need to send Valentine’s wishes to coworkers, here are some friendly but totally appropriate messages:
Happy Valentine’s Day! Thanks for being an awesome coworker!
Wishing you a wonderful Valentine’s Day! So grateful to work with you.
Hope your Valentine’s Day is as great as you are! Thanks for making work more fun.
Happy Valentine’s Day to the best team ever!
Sending good vibes your way this Valentine’s Day!
Valentine’s Day Messages for Teachers
Teachers deserve love too! Here are sweet messages for the teachers in your life (or your kids’ lives):
Happy Valentine’s Day to a teacher who makes learning fun! Thank you for everything you do.
Thanks for being an incredible teacher! Wishing you the happiest Valentine’s Day!
You make such a difference in our kids’ lives. Happy Valentine’s Day!
Instagram & Facebook Captions for Valentine’s Day (Couples Edition)
Need the perfect caption for your Valentine’s Day couple photos? I’ve got you covered with captions that are cute, funny, and totally Instagram-worthy:
Romantic Captions:
Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my favorite ❤️
Found my forever Valentine 💕
You’re my today and all of my tomorrows
Home is wherever I’m with you 🏡💘
Still falling for you every single day
My heart is perfect because you’re inside it 💗
Cute & Sweet Captions:
He stole my heart, so I’m stealing his last name (jk… unless? 👀)
You’re my favorite notification 💌
Together is my favorite place to be
Love you more than pizza (and that’s saying something) 🍕❤️
You’re my favorite weirdo 💕
Funny Couple Captions:
I love you even when I’m hangry. That’s how you know it’s real 😂
Thanks for being my unpaid therapist, personal chef, and full-time entertainer 🎭
Relationship status: Stealing his hoodies since [year you started dating]
We go together like coffee and mornings… I literally can’t function without you ☕💕
I love you more than I love WiFi. And I REALLY love WiFi.
Short & Simple Captions:
Forever my Valentine 💘
My person 💕
Love you forever ❤️
My happy place 🥰
Better together 💗
Song Lyric-Inspired Captions (Paraphrased):
All of me loves all of you 💕
You’re still the one I run to 💗
Can’t help falling for you over and over 💘
You’re my sunshine on cloudy days ☀️
Inside Joke Captions:
Him: “What do you want for Valentine’s Day?” Me: “You.” Also me: sends 47-item wishlist 😂
Relationship status: We finish each other’s… sandwiches 🥪💕
Love is sharing your food. Romance is letting them have the last bite 🍰
Aesthetic Captions:
Love looks good on us 💕
Making memories with my favorite person 📸
Romanticizing our everyday life 🌹
Plot twist: We lived happily ever after ✨
For First Valentine’s Together:
First Valentine’s Day with this one 💕 Here’s to many more!
Our first V-Day together (no pressure though 😅💘)
Chapter 1: Our First Valentine’s Day 📖💗
For Long-Term Relationships:
[Number] Valentine’s Days down, forever to go 💕
Still choosing you, every single day ❤️
Time flies when you’re having fun with your favorite person 💗
What NOT to Write in a Valentine’s Day Message
Okay, real talk for a second. While I’ve given you a TON of ideas for what TO write, let me quickly cover what you should probably AVOID in your Valentine’s messages:
Don’t:
- Bring up past relationship drama or exes (seriously, why would you?!)
- Make it all about you instead of them
- Use this as an opportunity to complain about the relationship
- Write something super generic that could literally be for anyone
- Go way too intense if you’ve only been dating for like two weeks
- Forget to personalize it! Inside jokes and specific references make it so much better
The best Valentine’s Day messages feel genuine and personal to YOUR relationship, whatever that looks like!
Tips for Writing the PERFECT Valentine’s Day Message
After going through all these messages, you might still be wondering how to make yours feel special. Here are my top tips:
1. Make It Personal Add inside jokes, reference shared memories, or mention something specific about them that you love. This is what takes a message from generic to genuinely touching.
2. Match Your Relationship’s Vibe If you’re usually funny and playful together, don’t suddenly write a super serious romantic novel. Be authentic to how you actually communicate!
3. Keep It Simple Sometimes “I love you and I’m so grateful for you” is all you need to say. Don’t overcomplicate it!
4. Add a Handwritten Touch Even if you’re using one of these messages as inspiration, writing it by hand in a card makes it feel more special than a text (though texts are cute too!).
5. Include Why You Love Them Instead of just saying “I love you,” try adding why: “I love you because you always know how to make me laugh when I’m having a bad day.”
6. Don’t Stress Too Much Honestly, the fact that you’re putting thought into this message already shows how much you care. Your person will appreciate whatever you write!
How to Deliver Your Valentine’s Day Message
The message is only half of it—how you deliver it matters too! Here are some creative ways to share your Valentine’s wishes:
Traditional Card: Classic for a reason! Pair it with flowers or chocolates.
Text Message: Perfect for long-distance or if you’re sending something throughout the day.
Love Note: Hide it somewhere they’ll find it—in their lunch, car, wallet, or laptop.
Social Media Post: Public declarations of love (if that’s your thing!).
Video Message: Record yourself saying it—super sweet for long-distance relationships.
Voice Memo: Send them an audio message they can listen to throughout the day.
This Post Was All About Valentine’s Day Messages!
Okay, I really hope this giant list of Valentine’s Day messages helped you figure out what to write! Whether you’re going for romantic, funny, sweet, or casual, the most important thing is that it comes from your heart and feels authentic to your relationship.
Remember: there’s no “perfect” Valentine’s message. The best one is the one that sounds like YOU and makes your person feel loved and appreciated. So take these ideas, make them your own, add your personal touch, and don’t overthink it too much!
And if you’re still stressed about it… just pick one from the list, write it in a card, and call it a day. Your Valentine will love it because it came from you. 💕
Now go write that card before you run out of time! (Speaking from experience here—I’ve definitely been writing my Valentine’s messages on February 13th at 11 PM before… no judgment!)
Happy Valentine’s Day! 🌹💘
This post was all about the best Valentine’s Day messages for everyone you love!
